Introduce yourself! Who are you?
Vanity Constance is a human who refuses to give up! 
Community builder, curator for experiences, project manager and consultant. 
She is a love advocate! 

Who would you say is your #1 inspiration?
1# inspiration is 2nd chances and knowing I have the ability to shift my attitude. 
The power, love and light of how my life is going all happens in my mind - I can change my mind anytime. The ability to start again. 
What is one thing no one really knows about you?
One thing about my that no one really knows is that I enjoy writing letters to my loved one. I want to make it more of a habit. I used to do it more. It's nothing like receiving love in the mail unexpectedly. 
What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
Best advice I have ever received is, Life is what YOU make it. 
What would you say to 16 year old you?
I would say, Listen more than you talk Vanity. Mindfulness is key to a more successful and fruitful life. 
What’s your dream job?
My dream job is being an international workshop facilitator and consultant.
Have you ever had anyone doubt you? How did that make you feel?
Yes, I doubt myself more than anybody else I ever meet. It makes me feel powerful and defeated when I have these thoughts. Daily, I remind myself that I can only do my very best and keep it moving. 
What message do you think every woman should hear?
Every woman should know that she is beautiful. You are not alone in life and that their are genuine people who do love you for you.  Stop making excuses, you are amazing just the way you are. There is always room to improve. 
What do you consider to be your greatest achievement?
My greatest achievement is getting out my own way and letting go of fear. I can do all things when I put my mind to it.
What is one thing people would be surprised to hear about you?
One things people would be surprised hearing from me is that I do not like to be referred to a 'positive person'. I live and love the life I live daily, I don't try to force happiness or being any type of way. I only desire to push myself and others to be the best they can be. 
What is something on your bucket list?
Something on my bucket list is to visit all of the continents. 

More About Vanity

Vanity Constance Sanders is a face of the positive change that a committed and passionate young person can make in a community that hungers for visible young role models. Inspired by the lack of beautification and artists engaged in the neighborhood she moved to, Vanity became an advocate and creator of opportunity. To date she has organized, coordinated and partnered with over 300 community events. While working at a community development firm for over six years, Vanity possess grassroots skill sets that enable her to effectively lead residents and drive long-lasting change.
Although heavily involved in the community, her expertise is not limited to community development. In 2016, she started an organization called Those Who Care – shaping the narrative of love awareness one person at a time; giving out free hugs, create love grams to distribute, and facilitate self-awareness workshops. Vanity also is the co-founder and organizational manager of Black Girl Magic Delaware. 

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